Note to all PARENTS
To all parents who think you are all great and mighty:
Here's a message for you. Hopefully, you'll be ashamed of yourself and apologize to your kids
With my laptop as my entertainment and only companion while somewhere my mom and sis were happily shopping and having a good time
When I ask for a takeaway, she complains
When I ask for something, it's always a big fat NO with a whole bunch of rants after that
When I ask for rest, she doesn't give it to me
When I NEED a rest, I will be ORDERED to do housework which I don't! Because even my dad pays me $50 when he saw me ironed his shirt
When I am studying, I don't get the well deserve study environment
When I'm in a relationship, she "cursed" me that I will never do well in my exams
When I do well in my studies, I don't get a good enough reward. come on! A MEAL FOR SO MANY As???? DAD GAVE ME A MAC BOOK PRO AND A BLACKBERRY PHONE
When exams are approaching, I have to wake up by myself, make my own breakfast and take a bus to school
When I'm having fun with my friends, I get calls and text messages to remind me about my curfew
Once, I was In Tampines with XX when I received a call from HER telling me to go home IMMEDIATELY.
Reason?
She forgot to bring the keys with her
I had to travel for 1 fucking hour just to go home and open the door
when I reached home, I found her hanging out in our neighbor's house chatting away happily
After I opened the door, all she did was to ask my sister to go in, and she left
CAN YOU IMAGINE HOW PISSED I WAS?
ON THE OTHER HAND
My sister was enjoying herself, going for spa treatments, facials, manicures, pedicures, eyebrow embroidery and frequent oversea trips
She gets what she wants from her
Although she had counseling from her school, and many phonecalls from her teacher for not doing her homework, she still gets PLENTY of love from her
When I was younger, even a simple sin like breaking a bowl would earn me a hell lot of canings. But for my sis, she doesn't even get caned.
When I was younger, I had to memorize the timestable and if i don't, I get scoldings and sometimes even beatings. This is not called educating and discipline! This is called CHILD ABUSE!
Just now, mom bought a whole carton of chicken essence for my sister. When I asked her why she bought so many, she said it's because my sis had to go through many tuitions and work.
F THAT!
You never gave me chicken essence last time when I had to go through 6 hours of tuition a day after school! You never gave me chicken essence when I had exams!
THIS IS BIAS!
So to all parents out there, treat your kids right
Cuz if you want them to take care of you when you grow all wrinkly and old, you need to start treating them right. right now.
Even the bible says so
If you start gaining your kids' trust and respect now. You can expect them to treat you well in the future.
And lastly, if you realise your kids are starting to return home late, don't blame them, blame yourself.
Because you see, they can't stand your rants, nagging, demands, complains. So they want to return home late so they don't have to face all these shit things when they go home.
Home is a place where you can find peace. A place where you rest and relax. A place where you can fart, quiff, burp, or do any nonsense without having to be judged.
So why are you parents trying to destroy this supposedly nice environment?
It's like trying to destroy the earth by polluting it with poisonous toxins, fumes, waste.
The end results will be dire.
Kids will end up hating their parents
Trust me
I've been there, done that
And it is not pleasant.
Trying to gain back their trust will be as difficult as trying to save the earth from global warming
And to all kids who are not being treated right. Don't worry, you are not alone.
Cuz no matter what, THERE WILL BE bias parents out there
But then again, they are your parents
Like what the bible says in the 10 commandments, "honor thy mother and thy father"
So yea,
there's nothing we can do
but complain and rant like how i'm doing now
P.s: sorry for throwing my temper at you xx
Wednesday, April 14, 2010 @ 7:42 PM / 0 daisies
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